***Disclaimer! I am in no way saying that doing these things will guarantee your man to stay faithful or keep him from leaving, BUT it will make him think about it before he does.***
#10 – Be honest!
Not just with him, but with yourself. Listen if and when he tells you that you all are just sexual partners and he doesn’t want a relationship. Don’t try to read between the lines or force him to change his mind. Most guys are cut dry and will tell you up front what it is. Listen! If they say it’s a duck, nine times out of ten it’s a damn duck!
#9 – Keep you looking good!
You have a better chance of keeping your mans eyes from wandering if you give him something good to look at. If you let yourself go, or don’t care what you look like then you basically are giving him permission to window shop, tempting him to make a purchase.
#8 – Be respectful to him even when he’s not around!
There is nothing more unattractive than a woman who throws herself at different men when her man is not around. Men talk just as much as women. If you don’t respect yourself and don’t make other people, why will your man? Just think he doesn’t want to walk around with community property on his arm.
#7 – Be spontaneous!
Don’t be afraid to try something new or introduce something to your man. Make sure its something your man will like. You don’t want to introduce something like toys if he is not into them. A bad surprise brings an uncomfortable situation later.
#6 – Let him hang with his boys- alone!
Every couple needs breathing room in order to maintain a healthy relationship. While he’s with the fellows catch up with your girlfriends or spend time enjoying you! Give each other a chance to miss each other.
#5 – Have sex whenever, however, wherever!
If your man goes out drinking with his boys would you rather he come home and tap you on your shoulder for some nooky or call the hoe down the street? Play out his fantasies and do it all. Keep your man satisfied because remember what you wont do there are plenty of women who will. Just make sure he knows that it’s the same the other way around as well.
#4 – Let him think you need him, even if you don’t!
Men like to feel needed, let him feel like there are certain responsibilities that you absolutely need him for, even if its something little like changing lite bulbs or opening jars. He might talk smack but trust me on the inside he loves it!
#3 – Let him be the man!
This piggy backs on number 4, but let him fight the battles and let him take charge. I heard it best on T.V. “how can you expect him to be the man if you are?” Give him a chance to lead, that’s his job!
#2 – Stroke his ego!
Tell him he’s great! Let him feel appreciated and loved. Motivate him to do better in life, even if it’s just to go after a promotion as his job. Most men act like they don’t need this, but it helps his confidence. And there is nothing sexier than a confident man, nor is there any type happier.
#1 – Give him head!
Yes I said it! If you don’t know how to watch a flick (Superhead is the best teacher), practice on a banana or ask him what he likes (I’m sure he’ll have no problem guiding you). Just get to it! Learn what excited him, make a game of it, each time you do it see how fast you can either make him nut or pull you off. Oh and don’t be afraid to swallow. He swallows yours when he goes down on you!
Now if you do all these things and he still dogs you out. Move on honey. He is dumb and will realize the error in his ways later. Probably after you found someone to appreciate you.
As a kid I loved holidays, I love the different store decorations and stories that filled my heart with hope and joy. I was a dreamer. I dreamed of a better world where fairies and houses made of ginger bread were real. Those dreams helped me make it through the tough times because every fairy tale started off like a nightmare but always ended with ‘happily ever after’. As I got older I learned that life wasn’t a fairy tale but I was blessed to have those fairy tales to help me grow past the nightmares that was my reality. 
